My Husband Masturbating Secretly- Sex Problems

Sex Problems- My Husband Masturbating Secretly

QUESTION

We have been married for three years. Our sex life is also good, despite of this I have seen my husband secretly masturbating. I have been troubled for many days by this wrong behavior of his. His behavior is also insulting. I don't understand what to do. Am I lacking or am I unable to satisfy them? Please, give proper advice, so that I can get rid of this habit of his.

Jenifer D’Costa, Melbourne.

ANSWER

First of all, you should remove this thing from your mind that masturbation is wrong or there is some dirty act or habit. Accept it with a healthy mindset. Masturbation is a healthy habit. Many times it happens with mat they have a strong desire to masturbate and they get satisfaction by doing it. There is nothing wrong with it, yes, but too much is not good either. Therefore, remove such thoughts from your heart. Sometimes it also depends on the preference of the particular person. Anyway, masturbation is a safe option to have sex. Remove your thinking and misconceptions about it and enjoy your sexual life.

Sex Problems-what's significant Brest size In Sexual Relation?

QUESTION

I am 22 years old, I am not married yet, and I am troubled by one of my problems. My breasts are small and I am always worried that after marriage there will be no problem in sexual relations due to this. This thought also arises in the mind that if there is a child, there will be no problem with feeding or any other kind of problem due to this. Is there any way to enlarge the breast? Please give proper guidance.

Jacob peter, Melbourne

ANSWER

Whether the breast is small or big does not make any difference to the sexual relation, because sex has no direct relation to it. Nor does it cause any problem in sexual pleasure. So don't worry about these things. After marriage, there will be no problem with it. Yes, it is not like that at all if it is about breastfeeding of the child. Milk is made only by the food of the mother and not by the size of the breast. Despite having small breasts, you can breastfeed the baby well, so do not worry about this too. If it is a matter of shaping the breast or increasing it, then pay attention to your diet for this. Take nutritious food. Swimming and exercising.

QUESTION

I am 25 years old. I am not married yet. I don't have any bad habits either. Yet every month I have nightfall at least four-five times. Apart from this, Semen also comes out a lot at that time. I am very worried about this. The day this happens, I don't even feel like doing any work on that day. What shall I do? Please solve my problem.

Jones Routs, Melbourne

ANSWER

Nightfall in puberty is a natural process. Having it 4-6timesn a month is not a disease, so don't worry too much about it. Don't worry too much about it. Often, the problem of dreaming is more due an to upset stomach i.e. constipation and thinking more about sex-related things. Usually, the contemplation of erotic thoughts is the main cause of this disease. So don't think about abuse-related things. Also, keep the stomach clean, so that the problem of constipation does not happen. By doing this, the problem of nightfall will go away to a great extent. Do not read obscene books apart from not bringing erotic thoughts to your mind. This problem can be avoided by taking these simple steps. Apart from all this, avoid eating spicy food, non-veg, alcohol or hot food, etc. Do not be too worried about nightfall, because even thinking more than thinking about it leads to nightfall. So avoid it. If the mind wanders more, then do meditation, pranayama and yoga.

QUESTION

It's been a year since we got married. Recently I had a miscarriage. In such a situation, there is also a fear about sexual relations. That's why I have kept some distance regarding sex, but the husband wants to have sex, while I feel that having sex at such a time will not be good for or my health. how many days after abortion is it better to have a sexual relationship?

Ketki boon, Melbourne.

ANSWER

If your bleeding has stopped after the abortion, then you can have sex. But at the same time, pay attention to the fact that there is no pain in your lower abdomen. If it hurts, do not make sexual relations. Apart from this, also keep in mind that whenever you want to become a mother again, avoid orgasm while having sex for three months after conceiving, that is, do not go to extreme pleasure. In such a situation, foreplay is a better option You have had a habitual miscarriage, meaning there has been a history of miscarriage within the first three months of pregnancy. Therefore, it is very important to be careful while having sex in such a situation.

 

Miss Stephy Sexologist- Melbourne. Australia.

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